Appaloosa Katet
By Ed Fussell and Joy Neverla
It
was late spring, early summer of 2007 that a series of events were
about to unfold that would change the direction of my future---at
least, my future endeavors with horses.
While
visiting the stables to help my then ill wife with her mustang, I had
been taking care of a little bay horse that seemed to me to have been
forgotten by his owner. Just when we began to build a
splendid relationship, his owner moved to Florida and took him with
her. I fell into a blue funk that was magnified each time I went to the
stables, despite the ministrations of my wife, Joy and our friend
Silke, owner of TNT stables. This blue funk impeded with my new-found
interest in horses, and as time went on, seemed only to get worse.
Destiny was about to intervene.
One
afternoon, as we drove into the yard with our cadre of companions,
Jubal and Sol, our dogs, we observed Silke working a new horse in the
round pen. He was a beautiful leopard spot appaloosa, and Silke was having a right smart time with this fellow. Although his original name is Stardust, she had a few other alternate names, but we will stick with the name Dusty. At any rate, it appeared to me that he was not happy with where he was, or with what he was doing.
Now,
understand this comes from someone who other than knowing which end the
hay goes in and which end it comes out, didn't know a thing about a
horse. Having stating my qualifications, I will say this: Silke, on the other hand, knows horses, and this fellow was a handful. He wasn't mean or nasty, but he was determined that he wasn't giving his trust over easily. I watched with renewed interest as Silke performed hand-to-hoof combat with her new charge.
After informing me that she wanted him isolated until he became used to his new environment. I
had to be satisfied with watching him, which wasn't hard to do. He was
beautiful: bright white coat beset with coal-black dots throughout;
head and ears up, alert, intelligent, and proud. There
was no fooling him---he knew that he wasn't in Kansas anymore, where he
came from, and there was no use in looking for the Wizard. To me, he
also seemed to feel lost, alone, confused and maybe even betrayed.
Time went by, and things for Dusty and the rest of the world weren't getting much better. Every
time I came by, I would look at him, as was my habit to watch all the
horses. One day, as I stood there watching him, I was no longer being
ignored---he had turned and was watching me! This was something new for me. Joy
had told me at one time that you do not always pick the horse,
sometimes the horse picks you. Unbeknownst to me, this was the
beginning of the end of my blue funk.
Previous to this incident, I had read books, saw videos, and listened to instructions on how to approach a new horse. So I started slow. At
this time, Silky had Dusty in the round pen again. So I walked over to
say hi, but what I got in return was a centered view of his
hindquarters. I stood there for a while and the view got no better, so, upon advice from Joy, I called it a day. As I started to leave, an odd thing happened: I looked back and saw Dusty looking back at me as if to say, "That's it?"
I watched more videos, read more books, asked more advice, and came back prepared to do battle. Cookies in one pocket, candy in the other and a prayer on my lips. And Dusty came prepared as well: hindquarters groomed, attitude primed, and a sneer of contempt in place.
This
time, as I entered the battle arena and stood before my foe, he
promptly went to the opposite side, and surprise---showed me his
backside. (Later I discovered that meant, "Stay away!" I
can be a bit dense, but I still got the hint.) This time, after a few
minutes of the standoff, he looked over his left shoulder as if to say,
"You're still here?"
I went left, he went right; and then we reversed directions. We danced this way for a few minutes and stopped: me on one side, Dusty on the other, facing me down with his butt. I contemplated the situation, trying not to look like I was out of breath. I also noticed his water bucket overturned. As an excuse to hide my lack of knowing what to do next, I went to refill his bucket. Without realizing it, that is exactly what Mark Rashid said to do: walk away. As
I walked away to fill up his water bucket, I thought, well, I didn't
progress, but I hadn't regressed, either. Looking back, I noticed him
sniffing the spot where I had stood, and looking at me. While
returning to the pen with the water, I got to thinking that Dusty had
won round one and two, plus had me trained to get his water, and I
hadn't noticed.
When I reentered the pen, Dusty was still at the other side, and he no longer had his backside to me, but was partly facing me. As I have heard Clinton Anderson say that it is no eyes, one eye, then two eyes when you know you are making progress. Rashid, Parelli, Anderson, Joy, and Silke all told me the same thing: cause the horse to think. After all, he had me thinking. So, while I considered all of that, I figured this was a good positive ending to the day.
When
I returned, I had new information in hand, cookies and candy in pocket,
and a new plan in mind. Again, we danced a while. Then, I went to the
middle of the ring, turned my back on Dusty, pulled my hat down over my
eyes, folded my hands in front of me---just as Mark Rashid said---and
waited. And waited. And waited. Days turned into night, seasons changed, and still I waited. Then, I got my answer: a sniffing sound at my back.
Although, I had help and advice from others, I believe this: Dusty shows me how to train him-- or maybe he just trains me---who knows? But I do know if I make mistakes, he'll forgive me.
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I
slowly turned to face my new found friend. Although I had a cookie,
when I held out my hand, Dusty still backed up. Again, I waited. The
cookie just smelled too good. He reached out his head as far as
possible, stretching even with his lips, and to my surprise, took the
treat. I promptly turned and left. I think I walked---maybe floated---to the gate. This
was a milestone for me as well as for him. Unknown to him, he now had a
chance. Horses, like people, have to have a use in life, and Dusty had
outgrown being a pet.
Our
relationship progressed very well after that day. He began to look
forward to seeing me almost as much as I to see him. Although, I had
help and advice from others, I believe this: Dusty showed me how to
train him or maybe he just trained me---who knows? But I do know if I
make mistakes, he'll forgive me.
Now during all this learning cycle Dusty and I were going through, there was a conspiracy being hatched. Understand,
Silke took on Dusty to train him so he could be ridden, then she
planned to sell him to someone as a trail horse. She was kind enough to
allow me access to Dusty and help train him with this purpose in mind.
Dusty "Warlock" (his nickname because he has a magical way of getting
into mischief) and I were becoming good friends. Herein began the conspiracy, unbeknownst to me.
One
afternoon, as I am fixing our horses' feed for the afternoon, Silke
walks up to me and says: "Congratulations! You are now the proud owner
of an appaloosa." You have to understand: her
sense of timing was perfect! Here I am, up to my elbows in a bucket of
wet alfalfa and beet pulp, two hungry horses staring at me and she lays
this bomb on me! With a "cat that ate the canary" smile
on her face, a bounce to her step, she turns on her heels and leaves me
standing there with my mouth open wide enough to catch flies. Quickly, with a superb mastery of the English language and a rapier wit, I reply, "huh?" Patiently,
she repeats what she said. It cleared up nothing for me, but it gave me
a chance to spew forth any excuse I could muster: "I don't know how to take care of a horse!" (like as if I hadn't already been doing it). Unfettered, she replies that her and Joy would help me. Just
like that, I am a "proud owner", as she had put it, of a beautiful
leopard-spot appaloosa. But this is only part of the conspiracy….as a
conspiracy takes more than one.
I
went to find Joy and to explain what Silke had just told me. She
listened, nodded at the appropriate times and was oddly calm about the
whole ordeal. My discovery came a few months later while we are having a discussion about the horses. I made a commit about how glad I was and how nice Silke had been about giving me Dusty. There were a few more frills and dressings, but you get the picture. Joy replies, "Yes it was, and I think we did a good job of selling you on the idea."
I may not be the brightest bulb on the chandelier, but I caught the "we" part. After asking her what the "we" meant, she became evasive. I
didn't give in, it was a contest of wills; I continued to interrogate,
question after question. I got tougher, went to torture,
water-boarding, bamboo under the fingernails, pulled out all the stops,
still she wouldn't sing. Then it hit me: I informed her that if she
didn't spill the beans, I would smear Nair on Stoney, her beloved
mustang. She couldn't help it, she gave it up.
The
story is that she and Silke felt that I needed more training and that
the best one for the job was Dusty. I hate to admit it, but they were
right. In fact, it has been over a year since and Dusty has been doing
a right fine job of it. He still is not able to break me to a saddle
but we will get there.
So
that is how I came to own a fine Appaloosa pony named Dusty, and with
the continued help from two good friends---conspirators that they
are---he will make a fine trail pony one day.
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